Sunday, September 14, 2014 | By: The Write Thing.

A Father’s Letter To His Son

Patience. A word, which reminds me of my past and questions
my present. I taught my cubs how to run, hunt, fight, stand up for themselves and answered every little question I was asked. Really, after all I’m the only one who could’ve answered them. Questions ranging from why a bird chirps to why the stone looks grey to why other animals didn’t look like you and I. I taught you two that there are all sorts of animals around us and you can’t treat every animal the same. Patience now, however, has a new meaning. It is now an unfulfilled expectation that should’ve protected my old bones. But how do I tell you? The protector that I am, I must camouflage my weaknesses. This story will answer why I never received the patience I expected and you are raised to be the royal one that you are.
There was a time when your brother and I would go for walks in the jungle. One day, we went hunting. The courageous boy that he was, he never told me about the bullies. The sensitive cub that he was, he’d get picked on again and again. As a parent, one just trusts their child to such an extent that a tiny hindrance in his life would be shared. The bullies were the sort of wild wolves that live with vengeance for the lack of a luxurious lifestyle. A pack of wolves began to growl reeking of the filth in their minds. The tear in my son’s eyes was enough to reveal everything that disturbed him. That was my reason, my window, to fight for every teardrop he wept. But the more the wolves would growl, the farther the window would shift away. Torn apart that I was, I plunged onto the wolves, the giant leap that slapped me so hard, it scarred me for life. I silenced the wolves. I wasn’t wrong was I? How could I have watched my son getting tormented, when all my life, I have fought against all odds only to watch him smile? But I guess it was a job horribly done. Within a week, one of the wolf’s family members slaughtered my son. It was then did I realize that the bullying was all for an ancestral revenge that wasn’t called for.
The news was unbearable. It is a curious thing, the death of a son. We all know that our time in this world is limited, and that eventually all of us will end up underneath some sheet, never to wake up. And yet it is always a surprise when it happens to the only one you’ve survived for. It is like walking up the stairs to your bedroom in the dark, and thinking there is one more stair than there is. Your foot falls down, through the air, and there is a sickly moment of dark surprise as you try and readjust the way you thought of things. My legs started to shiver but I ran. I ran as fast as I could to the peak, the cliff, where all you could hear was your mind and my mind was filled with chaos and the unforgettable growls. Where you could roar your lungs out and not a soul could hear you. It is in that place, where isolation and melancholy are in sync and you breathe those energies hoping for pacification and consolidation. I began to have vivid images of how brutally they could’ve ripped my son apart. I couldn’t bear the loss, my legs were still shivering and I gradually collapsed on the edge. I woke up to assorted animals staring at me wondering whether their king was alive. I had asked for light but this was blinding. The blurry faces and gleaming light brought me back to my consciousness and I quietly got up from there while the voices were still ringing in my head. I did not have the courage to look at anyone straight into their eyes when I was the reason their new king happened to compensate for the wolf’s dinner. The lion was now a lamb.
Today, I am almost on my deathbed. I still wake up, staring at the white and blue ceiling without walls, to those growls, those voices that have left a scar in my mind reminding me of how everything I have ever done had been washed for an action I never could take back, for an action that did not give a second chance, for an action that has instilled so many fears in me, for an action because of which you have been brought up to be the lion you are now. In time, I had formed my type. I faked it, yelled at you, tried my best to measure you with great accuracy, evaded the uncomfortable and glossed over the painful padding the historic records of my sorrows and accomplishments. As much as I subjected you to the display of rich, so did I manifest sarcasm when that was the last thing you needed. I tried my best to teach you lessons even at moments you couldn’t have absorbed but even now I will believe that I have always been right and will be, never more than immediately after I have been wrong.
I write to you seeking forgiveness for everything and accept all the decisions I ever took for you. Had I told you this before, maybe you would’ve been a little more patient and understanding with me and answered those millions of questions I’d shoot at you each time you returned home just the way I did when you were a cub. Its too late now but I hope you channelize your patience towards your child. There is a lot more to fatherhood that is left unsaid but is necessary in the journey of life.
Love,
Mufasa.



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